Pride goes before destruction, and haughtiness before a fall. Proverbs 16:18
I can very often tell when pride in my life is starting to surface. I can tell because I start to feel stressed and pressured to perform particularly well. I want to be the best and depend on my own power so that I can say, "I did that. I am impressive!" In doing this, I'm dependent on myself rather than being dependent on God. However, the truth about this mentality is that this is not the way that I, or anyone, is called to live. In fact, it is a particularly miserable way to live, and there is a better way. We are going to discover in Scripture today that God calls us to humility instead.
Proverbs 16 reminds us that, as much as we want to be in control and make our plans, God is the one who is in complete control of every one of our lives. In light of this, Solomon writes that we are to live in humility. "Pride goes before destruction," he writes, "and haughtiness before a fall" (verse 18). Have you found this to be true in your life? I certainly have. In my proudest moments, something happens that completely humbles me. In those moments, I have to remember who is in control and who I am living for. Maybe you can relate. There is a big difference in the way we live and feel when we are operating under humility instead of pride. When pride takes over, we tend to feel stressed and anxious, scared to make any kind of mistake. When we operate under humility, we can live with peace instead, knowing that God is in control instead of us.
Don't you want to live with humility and peace instead of pride, stress, and anxiety? This way of life is so much more peaceful and pleasant than operating under pride and stress. Let's choose humility today, remembering that God is in control. As we do this, we will experience God's great peace because He can be trusted to take care of us and keep His promises. We don't have to depend on ourselves. We can depend on Him.
Take time today to check your pride. Ask yourself the question: Do I have pride that I need to lay down? Then, find a trusted friend and ask them the same question. Finally, and most importantly, spend time in prayer, asking God to reveal any pride in your life. Then, ask Him to help you live a lifestyle of humility.
We can make our own plans,
but the Lord gives the right answer.
People may be pure in their own eyes,
but the Lord examines their motives.
Commit your actions to the Lord,
and your plans will succeed.
The Lord has made everything for his own purposes,
even the wicked for a day of disaster.
The Lord detests the proud;
they will surely be punished.
Unfailing love and faithfulness make atonement for sin.
By fearing the Lord, people avoid evil.
When people’s lives please the Lord,
even their enemies are at peace with them.
Better to have little, with godliness,
than to be rich and dishonest.
We can make our plans,
but the Lord determines our steps.
The king speaks with divine wisdom;
he must never judge unfairly.
The Lord demands accurate scales and balances;
he sets the standards for fairness.
A king detests wrongdoing,
for his rule is built on justice.
The king is pleased with words from righteous lips;
he loves those who speak honestly.
The anger of the king is a deadly threat;
the wise will try to appease it.
When the king smiles, there is life;
his favor refreshes like a spring rain.
How much better to get wisdom than gold,
and good judgment than silver!
The path of the virtuous leads away from evil;
whoever follows that path is safe.
Pride goes before destruction,
and haughtiness before a fall.
Better to live humbly with the poor
than to share plunder with the proud.
Those who listen to instruction will prosper;
those who trust the Lord will be joyful.
The wise are known for their understanding,
and pleasant words are persuasive.
Discretion is a life-giving fountain to those who possess it,
but discipline is wasted on fools.
From a wise mind comes wise speech;
the words of the wise are persuasive.
Kind words are like honey—
sweet to the soul and healthy for the body.
There is a path before each person that seems right,
but it ends in death.
It is good for workers to have an appetite;
an empty stomach drives them on.
Scoundrels create trouble;
their words are a destructive blaze.
A troublemaker plants seeds of strife;
gossip separates the best of friends.
Violent people mislead their companions,
leading them down a harmful path.
With narrowed eyes, people plot evil;
with a smirk, they plan their mischief.
Gray hair is a crown of glory;
it is gained by living a godly life.
Better to be patient than powerful;
better to have self-control than to conquer a city.
We may throw the dice,
but the Lord determines how they fall.
