When you read through the fruits of the Holy Spirit, which one do you need to work on most? It could be that your relationship with God is off and you are not making much time with Him. You need to put Him first by pursuing love, joy, or peace. Maybe you lack patience, kindness, or goodness in your relationship with others. You find that you are not patient or kind to your kids or those closest to you. It might be that you lack faithfulness, gentleness, or self-control when it comes to the way you handle yourself. Your passion hasn’t been guarded, and instead, you have been rash with your mouth and actions. Pick one fruit that you need the Holy Spirit's help to bring out in your life and write it down below. Then take some time to journal about some ways you can let God take control of this area of your life.
So I say, let the Holy Spirit guide your lives. Then you won’t be doing what your sinful nature craves. The sinful nature wants to do evil, which is just the opposite of what the Spirit wants. And the Spirit gives us desires that are the opposite of what the sinful nature desires. These two forces are constantly fighting each other, so you are not free to carry out your good intentions. But when you are directed by the Spirit, you are not under obligation to the law of Moses.
When you follow the desires of your sinful nature, the results are very clear: sexual immorality, impurity, lustful pleasures, idolatry, sorcery, hostility, quarreling, jealousy, outbursts of anger, selfish ambition, dissension, division, envy, drunkenness, wild parties, and other sins like these. Let me tell you again, as I have before, that anyone living that sort of life will not inherit the Kingdom of God.
But the Holy Spirit produces this kind of fruit in our lives: love, joy, peace, patience, kindness, goodness, faithfulness, gentleness, and self-control. There is no law against these things!
Those who belong to Christ Jesus have nailed the passions and desires of their sinful nature to his cross and crucified them there. Since we are living by the Spirit, let us follow the Spirit’s leading in every part of our lives.